Imagine Qianwen flaring up and scolding pple? that’s me today, apologies for those who were scolded by me today, I was being too harsh and some miscommuniations today.
Today I had a badminton game today with hann kwang, aiting, Liyan, LKY and my friend Yimin.the first things that flared me up was the IMM bus. I waited for 40 mins for the damn shuttle bus and OMG the sign on the bus said "20-min interval", oh do u mean "2 20-min interval", and from being super early I was late.
If everything went smoothly, I wouldn be able to get angry that angry. Being late means that I beared the resposibility of 3 badminton rackets, which means others all cannot play without me.Then I remember last night where I msg everyone that I m short of one racket an I had expected pple to try to borrow one, except for my friend Yimin as his is at his friend’s house which I understooded.Then came LKY’s reply msg"I dun have one".of course I knew he did not have one, I dun need another reminder, I’m not retarded!I just can’t explicitly say that oh can u guys try to borrow from a friend?
okay nvm, to shoulder this huge responsibilty og getting 4 rackets when I have only 3, I comtemplated buying an extra racket after my work this morning at Yunnan Restaurant, and before buying, I called liyan and she said Hann kwang is coming and will bring an extra one. Then came this bomb, OMG hannkwang is coming, I didn expected a fivesome as only 4 can play at any one time, and to me its rude for pple to wait at the game and besides we only booked 1 hour.and he keep telling me 4 rackets are enuff as only 4 can play, so he just needed to bring one more.
okay then after I boarded my bus, my hp reception went bonkards(is that how u spell it) and Liyan just said she will be late and I told her that I’ll reach in time.what to do now?I keep calling the sports complex and everyone because I know that if we are not at the court 15 mins before hand, the court will automatically be given to someone else.then i got angry that y I always have to be the earliest when I’m not even the organiser and what will happen if that really happens? We would have wasted our trip.
So another bomb reach when I see Aiting, this is good, only 4 rackets and 6 persons. blah blah blah, then I started confronting Liyan why she never tell me earlier, Hann kwang for bringing only 1 racket when he knew tat I was short of 1 already and Aiting is coming, and LKY for being late again.
thank goodness the game started on a bad note but ended up well. The problem with me is that i like everthing to be well organised,really sick of organising things and tryig to put everthing on my shoulders. Liyan’s thinking is the more the merrier while to me its quite rude to let pple wait and not enough time.To me, I want to be well prepared but to Hann kwang, he’s just being practical that 4 pple on a court means 4 rackets, tat’s it. and the good thing is LKY brought his own racket when 1 of my rackets gone hay-wired (spoilt) during the game.
Just wanted everyone to understand my predicament. I didn want to flare up as well, I’m a peace lover.Just that when I got angry, I go hay wire too,cannot think straight. I hope u guys wont be scared off by me, I hope to see u guys again next week,I did enjoy the game and the bonding together over dinner.