If u always wear shorts, sports shoes, a T-shirt or a cap, Beware! u may be e next to be caught up in a conversation with a Black.There’s no discrimination here, except that I really dun see how I can possibly click with a black as a friend, sexual partner or a lover n what’s more I dun know what these pple’s motives r.Definitely not as a friend I think, since they dun even know me n approach me like tat.
My exp with them were both on e train stn, they just spot u when they r waiting for the train, just like tat! My 1st exp was a sweet one, a quite handsome one approach me (if i say handsome, I think there shld be some truth in it since all blacks practically look e same). He sat beside me n start by introducing himself, asking mine n telling me more abt himself, where he’s working, wat’s my age….e nice part is here. He began praising me having such a nice smile, very pretty (haha, I wasn even having makeup and specs n pls lol, my face was pimpled) but it was such pleasure to hear praises like that 4 e 1st time, I was practically smiling from ear to ear. Then he asked for my contacts and urhmm, I was so caught up and surprised that I told an unbelivable lie tat I left my hp at home, so if he calls, I may not be able to hear.I forgot what happened but I remember he looked even blacker after tat.
A few days ago, I met another black at train stn again! I had the premonition when I saw him. I looked at myself n back at him. (OMG, I was wearing a bright 2 piece blouse and shorts, gosh!) I moved myself immediately from him but I forgot to shift to another cubicle to sit when I went into e train. He came and sat beside me (damn it there were so many seats around, y mus u sit beside me, I was cursing). then everything started again, e same intro, followed by e same "oh u are so pretty" disgusting praise, then my contacts. I said that I dun giv my contacts to strangers n I got off at e next stop. Again his face became even darker, took out his hp for coverage and didn even have the manners to say bye when I bid him bye.
Maybe its hard to make frenz in an unfamilar place, jus can’t accept such stranger-friendship relationship. Maybe you wld be sceptical n ask me what if its a good-looking Chinese approaches me? Wld I hav the same reaction, I will say he’s DESPERATE! cos I dun have the qualities to make heads turn.
Thanks to Ben and David who replied my posts. Its really a joy to see returned comments.